A Love Story In 250 Questions

I recently finished reading Romances and Practicalities by Lindsay Jill Roth. Shout out to Lindsay and her publisher for sending me this ARC.

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  Rating: 3.75/5 stars

"In the age of increasingly impersonal dating—where “ghosting” is the norm and “situationships” abound—how do you actually get to know someone? How do you get off the hamster wheel of first date after first date and advance a relationship along the path to commitment? How do you know if the person to whom you’re committing is really (or really might be) “the one?”

Where’s the guide?

Enter Romances & Practicalities, a set of 250 research-backed questions spread across twelve separate categories—from money to children to chores to sex—designed to help you identify your wants, needs, and non-negotiables, assess compatibility with a potential or current partner, initiate tricky conversations with grace, and build a deeper, stronger relationship. The questions range from seemingly light and casual to intimate and serious,

How did your family members communicate, share, and argue growing up?How are we different? Do our differences complement each other or might they be a source of future conflict?How important to you is spending time alone?How do you show love to others?How important is your career in terms of your identity?How do you feel about debt? Mortgages?If we were stuck on that desert island together, what strengths and skills would you bring to the table to help us survive?Roth weaves the questions and her approach to them with her own charming love story, provocative interviews with real-life couples who’ve used the system, and practical guidance from a diverse range of clinical and popular experts including psychotherapist and bestselling author Lori Gottlieb, the “holistic psychologist” Dr. Nicole LePera, Dr. Mark Hyman, sex therapist Dr. Emily Morse, Suze Orman, Nate Berkus, Justin Baldoni, Barbara Corcoran and many more.

For anyone who’s ever wondered—How could we have never talked about this?!—Roth’s wise and witty narrative explores the reasons we don’t often equate romance with practicality, and arrives at a surprising healthy communication isn’t just vital, it’s sexy. "

This book is accessible and warm, and avoids being preachy. Very user-friendly and, selfishly, validating where I was expecting judgment, which always helps.

Check out Romances and Practicalities, and discover what happens when you ask the right questions.

Happy Reading :)