You Must Allow Me To Tell You How Ardently I Admire And Love You
- The Book Lover
- Mar 11, 2024
- 3 min read

I recently finished reading Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen.
POSSIBLE SPOILER ALERT
Rating: 3.75/5 stars
"‘He began to feel the danger of paying Elizabeth too much attention’. Pride and Prejudice , one of the most famous love stories of all time, has also proven itself as a treasured mainstay of the English literary canon. With the arrival of eligible young men in their neighborhood, the lives of Mr. and Mrs. Bennet and their five daughters are turned inside out and upside down. Pride encounters prejudice, upward-mobility confronts social disdain, and quick-wittedness challenges sagacity. Misconceptions and hasty judgments bring heartache and scandal but eventually lead to true understanding, self-knowledge, and love. It’s almost impossible to open Pride and Prejudice without feeling the pressure of so many readers having known and loved this novel already. Will you fail the test - or will you love it too? As a story that celebrates more unflinchingly than any of Austen’s other novels the happy meeting-of-true-minds, and one that has attracted the most fans over the centuries, Pride and Prejudice sets up an echo chamber of good feelings in which romantic love and the love of reading amplify each other."
It was very slow in the first pages, however, nearing the end, I was like a driver going at 100mph, eager to reach the finish line.
In the first pages, I have to admit I was frustrated, for Jane Austen had called her characters Miss Bennet, and I must duly mention that there are five Miss Bennets. And the use of various nicknames confused me more.
I must also mention my despise of Mrs. Bennet. I hated her more than anyone in this novel. She has no talent in being a mother whatsoever and has no notions of leading her daughters on the right path. The only thing that matters to her is the marrying of her five daughters. After the misfortune of Lydia running away with Wickham, she was frivolous as to forget the elopement as soon as news of marriage ensued. She considered hunting for a wedding gown, the most of her problems. I've never seen a woman as fickle-minded as her and no one as blinded to riches as her. Nor do I have a desire to meet one.
Lydia Bennet, is another matter. She is selfish and insensitive as anyone can get. I have to mention this, to unload the hatred in my chest.
How Jane and Elizabeth turned out to be well-bred is a wonder, considering the type of mother they were born with.
But enough of what I hate about the book, because it will soon be forgotten, and all but the love of Mr. Darcy for Elizabeth will remain.
This is a genuine love story. I've fallen in love with Mr. Darcy. He wanted to change his ways for his beloved Elizabeth. He helped her in so many ways and he needed no credit for it. For him, it was enough that he knew he helped her. He also hid his love for her for so long, it's endearing.
No part of the book was useless. All were vital for the fruition of Mr. Darcy and Ms. Bennett's love story. As you go deeper into the book, all pieces come together, like a puzzle, slowly making meaning.
Indeed, Ms. Elizabeth Bennet is lucky, to have loved and to be loved in return. Despite the troubles their love had to endure, it was victor in the end.
Check out Pride and Prejudice, and discover what it means to fall in love.
Happy Reading :)



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